Dog Gone Problems is a weekly advice column by David Codr, a dog behaviorist in Omaha. David answers dog behavior questions sent in by our readers. You can reach him at¬†email@example.com.
I just adopted an 8-year-old dog named Noodle. She had a rough life before coming to me. She was taken away from a neglecting and abusing owner and placed in a high-kill shelter in North Carolina before meeting a wonderful foster family, where she spent six months.
She chases me everywhere, wants to be picked up and barks when I leave. She is deaf as well, so your hissing sound to disagree won’t work. She has the kindest personality, and I feel sorry for her and try to make her life as stress-free and happy as possible.
Could you please recommend the best approach to make her follow me less and possibly to stop barking when I leave? Thank you so much!
So wonderful of you to rescue a deaf dog. Many people are unwilling to take on the challenge of adopting a dog with a deficiency like deafness.
While it’s normal to feel sorry for a dog who had a tough go at life prior to meeting you, be careful…as it can become debilitating. The first three days a dog is in a new home, he or she is often in shock (sometimes more intense and some dogs not at all). As the dog figures out he or she is in a safe place, he or she starts to relax and shows more personality. Usually you don‚Äôt see a dog‚Äôs real personality until he or she has been in a new home for two to three weeks. So you may discover other behavior issues as Noodle becomes more confident around you.
I mention this because what you describe sounds like the leggings of separation anxiety. This is when the dog feels insecure when left alone. Some dogs lose control of their bowels, some get destructive and some, like yours, bark. I like to describe separation anxiety in dogs as being similar to a human having a panic attack.
I have found great success by teaching dogs with separation anxiety to stay so that you can help them practice being alone. This video will show you how to train your dog to stay.
Even though yours is deaf, dogs usually learn through gestures first, so training a dog who can‚Äôt hear isn‚Äôt that much more challenging than a dog who can. The difference is you will mark the new commands by hand signals instead of verbal cues. Make sure to use big bold movements. Many people use small, subtle signals that are hard to see at a distance or too elaborate.
Once your dog knows how to stay, you can start asking her to stay for progressively longer and longer periods of time as you get a drink of water, grab something from the next room, use the bathroom, etc. This will help your dog practice being alone and also build up her confidence as she masters this new skill.
Another suggestion is to start asking her to sit, lay down or offer some other behavior before petting her. If you get into a habit of doing this, each time you pet your dog, you do a little training and boost her self esteem while reinforcing a healthy leader/follower dynamic.
My last tip is to start teaching your dog new tricks and commands. Set a goal of one new trick or command a week to start. Make them easy at first to get both of you into a routine. You will find that as your dog accumulates new skills, it will boost her confidence, which will help in many areas of her life.
Good luck and remember ‚ÄĒ everything you do trains your dog. Only sometimes you mean it.
Is this dog in an office? Omaha World-Herald bosses, please make this a thing. Tank is owned by Paula Harris.
Riley started his life as a stray in Omaha until adopted by Jodi Hoatson¬†from the Nebraska Humane Society. Hoatson told NHS that he would have the “life of Riley” if she adopted him. They both agreed that would be a great name and the rest is history.
Omaha native Quin loves to go for rides in her car seat. She’s owned by Tom and Jackie Mayhan.¬†
Hailey and Zoey, owned by Trevor Lickteig in Bellevue, just became big sisters to a baby boy.¬†
Cooper feels a lot like we do at the Omaha Storm Chasers’ Bark in the Park. Not only does he get to watch a baseball game, but what beats a 25-cent hot dog?
“Say, have you ever thought about getting a larger pool?” Digsby, Simba and Cinderella are owned by Tina Acosta.¬†
Toby, a Rhodesian Ridgeback mix, lets his family, the Elsessers, live with him in Papillion. He loves eating popcorn with his dad and going to work with his mom.
Turtle, a dog, and Faun, also a dog, were rescued by Joel and Aristine Smith in Omaha. Turtle was saved from a dog-fighting ring, while Faun struggled with starvation and illness. Both have grown up to be loving pets.
“This is how chairs work, right?” Cooper, a five-month-old Pomeranian, is owned by Julie Jones.¬†
There’s probably a country song to be referenced here. Leo, owned by Megan Assmann in Fremont, loves Jeep rides with the top off.
Annabeth, left, and Thalia are named from the book “The Lightning Thief.” Their favorite activity is watching birds, bunnies and owner Anita Ducey out of the window in their Lincoln home.
Annabeth and Thalia were named the Week 24 Pet of the Week.¬†
Donald and Bailey, neighbors in Omaha, show their bond by watching each other through windows and barking back and forth.¬†
Sometimes it takes getting a little lost to find your true home, as is the case with Lincoln native Midnight. Owner Katie Duff decided one morning she wanted a dog, wandered into Capitol Humane Society and found Midnight, who was then a lost puppy.¬†
Quit monkeying around! Chloe, a one-year-old English Springer Spaniel, is owned by Mary Langenfeld in Bellevue.
Snoop loves all things gardens, even if its helping owner Margaret Rosman of Omaha tidy up flowers at the family plot in preparation for Memorial Day. Snoop is described as a dedicated companion who is always by his owner’s side.¬†
Roger, owned by Danielle Eckert in Omaha, is an energetic guy who loves meeting new people and animals, and is also very protective of his owner when others get close.
This picture of Madi was taken nearly 13 years ago. She has accomplished a lot in her life, including winning a pancake catching contest at a Nebraska Humane Society event. She knows about a dozen tricks, including high-five, army crawl, walk backwards, role over, play dead, spin, speak, stay, shake, balancing a treat on her nose and wave.¬†
This is either a hamster going through a teenage punk rock phase or a longhaired Guinea Pig. Either way, Loki, brother of Thor, is owned by Shannon Bergman.
“If you make eye contact, you give me a treat.” Emmy Rose is owned by Karen Degeorge.
Phoebe, owned by the Stem family in Omaha, is a Pyranees-Border Collie mix rescued from Texas. She loves chasing squirrels and eating pizza crust.
Phoebe was named the Week 22 Pet of the Week!
Mordecai, a quiet guy, can not meow. Instead, the cuddly cat goes “meh,” like most cats wish they could when told of their owner’s problems. Mordecai is owned by Danielle Eckert in Omaha.
Myrtle and I have plenty in common. She is a feisty reptile who enjoys eating shrimp, biting and showing off long, slender legs while simultaneously appearing completely uninterested in anything that might be said to her. OK, maybe not¬†that¬†much in common. I am very interested in what you have to say.
“Something that loves to lay behind a person and wrap around their neck.” Is it a snake? Is it a scarf? No, it’s Roxy the dog! Roxy is owned by Amber Powell in Kokomo, Indiana.¬†
Snots, a 3-year-old beagle from Leigh, is owned by Cole Fisher.¬†
Snots was named the Week 21 Pet of the Week!
Trooper, a 12-year-old, loving cat who has lived with diabetes for five years, is owned by Val Green in Bellevue.
“Water you guys doing? Get in!” Max, a 3-year-old, is a “swimming maniac,” who loves the pool. He logs more water time than his family. He’s owned by Deni in Papillion.
Why couldn’t the pony yell? Because it was a little hoarse. Vee, a regular-sized horse, loves to eat bananas, and is owned by Lisa Van Stratten in Fort Calhoun.
Vee was named the Week 20 Pet of the Week!
Pogo is best friend to Paula Hatt in Jacksonville, Florida. He is a 10-year-old Chiweenie, timid among strangers but adores people watching in outdoor settings.
Maggie (May) loves the outdoors, and lives for rides, walks and treats!¬†But, according to Nick and Kim Ash in Omaha, Maggie loves her owns the most.
Harper is a loud, vocal tuxedo cat who loves to lounge in high, warm places. We assume he is unhappy on the low, potentially cold carpet. But here we are.
“Just explain to me why the Tiger is trying to play soccer and baseball simultaneously.”¬†Cooper is a 6-year-old who was adopted from the Capital Humane Society in Lincoln. He was dressed to help owner¬†Angela Bohling of Omaha groom him.
Kandie may look cute, but don’t let that fool you. She’s a super-sniffing, treat-terrorizing, squirrel-fighting yellow lab that loves to retrieve full branches, not sticks. Kandie even has a Twitter page to keep friends updated on all the neighborhood happenings.
Kandie was named the Week 9 Pet of the Week!
Maize almost had her name changed, but one day after being rescued by owner Lisa in Omaha, it turned out “Crazy Maize” fit too well. She carries a¬† pink stuffed animal kitten around the house, always protecting it. Each night she has the routine of bringing the kitten to each person in the house before putting it to bed.
‘It’s about time you recognize who is king of this house.” Ernie is owned by Rose Mary Hefley in Ralston.¬†
“You can say I can’t be on the couch all you want, but I don’t speak human.” Jett is owned by Jill Beckstrom.
Bella loves everything to do with the water, even baths¬†‚ÄĒ which she will eagerly jump in the tub for. She’s an Omaha native owned by Lisa Schettler.
Bella was named the Week 8 Pet of the Week!
“Any chance I could convince you to sit in boxes and eat grasshoppers with me?” Calliope (pronounced Kuh-lye-oh-pee) is owned by Omaha’s Sarah Britson, who says her cat is interested in bugs, boxes and manipulation, and¬†always¬†wants to play.
Hemi, a rescue from Hands, Hearts and Paws, lives in Omaha with her “mailmom and maildad,” along with Quincy the cat.¬†
Penny, a St. Libory native currently residing in Gretna, loves squeaky toys and cuddling. In this picture, she seems intent on convincing owner AnnaLisa Estrela to help with both.
If there’s one thing Tug loves, it’s riding around in a utility vehicle to check irrigation, according to his owners at Hoffman Farms in Arapahoe.
Millie will carry around her bones and cry because she doesn’t have any place to hide them. She’s owned by¬†Christine Behlen in Elkhorn.
Millie was named the Week 7 Pet of the Week!
Wiggles wants to be a cloud for Halloween. According to owner Kelli in Johnson, Nebraska, Wiggles is found sitting like this around the house once in awhile. She loves to eat, sleep and look pretty¬†‚ÄĒ but don’t we all?
Harlow, a professional Frisbee player, loves being outside and snuggling with owner Rachel Costello of Omaha.
Mavvy, an Elkhorn native owned by Alicia Hoffman, loves to sit outside in the sunshine.
Bella, a citizen of Newman Grove, Nebraska, loves to chase her own tail, get her belly rubbed and cuddle. She’s owned by Jean Nelson.
“Hello, I would like to be a walk-on for Scott Frost and the Huskers. I’d be an excellent tailback.” Max is owned by Kevin Keeley.¬†
Max was named the Week 6 Pet of the Week!
Izzy likes to chase things, especially her tail. She’s owned by Reese Eilenstine in Elkhorn.
“Pardon me? You’re going to have to speak up. Pet Parade, you say? I’m in.”¬† David loves to snuggle, especially in the cold, and according to owned Rachel Costello in Omaha, would have his heart warmed up with a Pet of the Week victory.
Lulu and Coco, ages 6 and 2, respectively, share the same mom, but have different dads. Lulu, right, frequently sits on her bottom so you can easily scratch her belly. The two inseparable sisters¬†are owned by Liz Hall in Fremont.
Stella is a very giving cat. She often gifts owner Shea Hoffman of Elkhorn with cicadas, grasshoppers and mice at her back door.
“You know that 45-minute rule is a myth, right?” This is Molly, owned by Jodi Bruce in Omaha.
“Ha! That’ll teach you to get me a white dog toy. Now you have no idea which one I am. Wait, what’s blue mean?” Meet Bon Jovi, owned by Rose Mary Hefley in Ralston.
It’s not often we get beer models submitted to Pet Parade. Moesby R2D2 JFK Cavalieri, Moe for short, is owned by¬†Molly and Tony Cavalieri in Omaha.¬†
Chloe is an emotional support dog that is by owner Alexis Christner’s side as soon as needed. The Kearney native is a perfectly healthy double dapple dachshund that loves pickles and bananas.
Paloma often submits audition tapes to America’s Next Top Model, but hit the upgrade button and submitted to Pet Parade. She likes getting her belly scratched and posing for pictures, and is owned by Kayleigh Lewandowski.
Paloma was named the Week 1 Pet of the Week.
Cooper, you might be taking Halloween a little too far. Please get out of the pan. He’s a five-year-old Cavachon, owned by Chuck Sinclair of Lincoln.
“Watch me shine,” says Munchkin, a 7-month-old lab that enjoys antagonizing her big brother and sister, Bubba and Betty. Nicknamed MuMu, she is owned by Paul and Michelle Ackerman in Bellevue.
Well, this is a first. Kitty is a dog. She greets everyone with kisses, loves rolling in the leaves and chasing after squirrels. The most unique aspect about her, owners Kari and Lyle Hamrick of Omaha say, is that she is a good listener who will respond to a story with a bark.
“You. Will. Feed. Me. Treats.” Gracie, a 12-year-old, was rescued from Little White Dog Rescue by Linda Gencarelli in Omaha and is “one heck of a dog.”
Blue, a four-year-old yellow lab owned by Jake and Chelsea O’Connor in Omaha, loves eating bread loaves off the counter, stealing guests’ socks from their suitcases and turning her head away when one tries to give her a kiss. Still a good dog.
Blue was named the Week 2 Pet of the Week!
Yoga master Gracie, owned by Jill Wicht in Plattsmouth, specializes in downward dog.
Gracie was named the Week 3 Pet of the Week!
Wesley Dean was rescued from a shelter in Athens, Texas, by owner Mary Angeline Kava.
Gnomeo loves to “eat food and enjoys to hang out with the pretty ladies when we have people over,” owner Michaela Norman of Omaha said.
Sierra and I have a lot in common. We both smile like this and will stand on our hind legs to dance when invited.¬† She is owned by Dan and Courtney Carver.
Tigger takes a daily three-mile walk, enjoys long games of fetch, plays with the garden hose and has learned to unlock and open the sliding glass door to let himself outside. He also has dug a hole in the backyard that can “rival the Grand Canyon.”
Ollie, as you can tell, has quickly learned to enjoy the outdoors. He’s owned by Matt Kroll in Omaha.
Ollie was named the Week 4 Pet of the Week!
Bootsie, a 12-year-old, was adopted from the Nebraska Humane Society by owner Mary Angeline Kava.
Gunner, who must have some sort of sponsorship deal, never has his birthday forgotten. He was born on Oct. 11, 2012. Or 10/11/12. He’s owned by Tyler and Traci Horning in Lincoln.
“I double dog dare you not to give me a treat. Can’t do it, can you?” Jax is owned by Jill Wicht in Plattsmouth.
Mila is always keeping a watch over his family. He’s owned by Adam and Jessica Sass in Fremont.
“Puhleeeeaaaase give me some of that steak. I need it!” MacDuff loves walks, car rides, treats and being friendly. He’s owned by Joanna and Mark Fisher, along with daughters Sarah, Emily and Molly, in Omaha.
Gus just joined his family after being adopted from the Nebraska Humane Society by Josh and Shelly Vandenberg.
I mean, not that we play favorites, but this is some pretty good product placement by Duke, a Millard native owned by Linda Van Dyke.
Duke was named the Week 5 Pet of the Week!
“Look at me. I’m Leonardo DiCaprio in ‘The Revenant.’ ” Copper, owned by Lacey and Chris Kincaid in Omaha, loves jumping off the arms of furniture and right on top of the other two dogs.
Copper was named the Week 13 Pet of the Week.
Which of these three dogs is not a statue? Darcy is the cutest Frenchie in Omaha per her owners Joshua and Madeline Howell.
Brevik, near, and Augie love to go on the boat, but they always stay alert. The duo is owned by Kurt Brown.
Dexter, owned by Brendon in Omaha, loves to meet other dogs and people.¬†
“Hello, we will not be watching television today. Instead we will be giving me attention. Thank you.” Ben, a 3-year-old loves to cuddle and give kisses. He’s owned by Brendon Schweers of Omaha.
Presley, left, and Penny are always together, even when sleeping through owner Derek’s percussion practice.
Lexi, a Phoenix native who moved to Omaha, has yet to get used to the snow, and even has to get used to the grass. She’s owned by Brian in Lincoln.
Ben’s favorite game is tug-of-war with his 35-pound friend, which consists of him laying on the ground while the opponent pulls with all his might and Ben doesn’t budge. He’s owned by Sarah Morris in Omaha.
Ben was named the Week 12 Pet of the Week.
“Tag, you’re it!” Elli and and Kate, owned by Kathy Foster in Lincoln, are having a good time getting rid of excess energy in the snow.
Milk, owned by Sarah Carr, and Romeo, owned by Makenzi Carr, were adopted from Omaha Wags to Riches. They are always cleaning each other or play fighting.
Snow Petunia, sporting some corrective lenses, is a low-key queen of her Omaha household owned by Sydney Kellen. She loves to cuddle from time to time and also enjoys playing with yard.
Snow Petunia was named the Week 11 Pet of the Week.
At one point, Luci had a fish friend in this tank. Unfortunately, Luci murdered the fish. Luci is short for Lucifer, according to owner Ella Knight in Omaha.
The only thing Howells native Bailey loves more than chasing rabbits and chewing golf balls is kayaking. The puggle (half pug, half beagle) just celebrated her sixth birthday with owner Makenzie Polacek.¬†
Hooper native Leia loves belly rubs and long walks on the beach. Or long walks anywhere, really. She’s owned by Rachel Purcell.¬†
Future WWE superstars Sophie and Charlie are small but pack a punch. Owner Kim Lynch says they sound like a herd of elephants running through the house.
Brutus, a Southwest Omaha native owned by Phillip Schmidt, loves playing tug-of-war. He has yet to be convinced he is a dog.
Brutus was named the Week 10 Pet of the Week.
Lokai, cared for by Jennifer Hillman in Castana, Iowa, loves to rest peacefully on her owner’s face at 2 a.m.
“Do you think this would work as a campaign photo for Pet of the Week?” Copper, a McCook native, is owned by Ethan Hardin.
“Hahaha! Good luck using your computer now. I ate the mouse!” Edna, owned by Barb Hughes in Lincoln, doesn’t meow¬†‚ÄĒ just purrs.¬†
Harley may not have any hair but still loves the snow. She is training to be a service dog one day and is from Paris, Maine.
“Do you have ANY idea what time it is? I am very hungry.” Hank gets angry at owner Jen Dominguez if he is fed dinner late.¬†
Hank was named the Week 14 Pet of the Week.
High-jumping Lando, born May the 4th, appropriately has a Star Wars-themed name. He’s owned by Stephanie Burkholder in Omaha and loves every creature he comes across.
Meera Grace overcame a lot of difficulty in her life. Born in Pine Ridge, South Dakota, she was rescued by Heartland German Shepherd Rescue. She was treated for heartworm, fly strike and malnutrition, but now lives happily with owner Tennille Renee in Omaha.
Buddy,¬†owned by Jean Mayberry, loves to climb things that aren’t meant to be climbed.¬†¬†
Cricket, described as “nine pounds of love,” is nevertheless fearless. She’s owned by Candi Puren.
Oreo and “Little Guy” are best buds who are always together. Oreo loves to play fetch with his toys and taught Little Guy how to play. They are owned by James Thompson and his family.¬†
Spooky, a South Sioux City resident who was adopted in Omaha by Lisa Ong, loves to eat hair ties.
Hipster dog Spencer, who is surprisingly from Bellevue and not Benson, loves to make sure his family focuses on him instead of their phones. He’s owned by Renee Pineda.¬†
Daisy, owned by Blake and Maria in Omaha, loves to people watch, play catch with toy mice, follow her family around the house and relax in the sun.
“Ice cream, Lieutenant Dan!” Forrest Stump, on his back, and Lieutenant Dan ‚ÄĒ members of the Omaha Corgi Crew ‚ÄĒ love chasing each other, stealing food and meeting new humans.
Forrest and Dan were named the Week 15 Pet of the Week!
“No, I’m not listening. My ears are always this way. Let me sleep.” Taco, a 6-year-old Chihuahua, is owned by Michael Murakami.
In a galaxy far, far away, Wolfy perches atop the couch. He’s owned by Holden and Shawnee Armstrong in Lincoln.
Wolfy was named the Week 16 Pet of the Week.
Don’t go into the light! Spaz, right, enjoys chasing any light he sees, while Oliver enjoys being mean to his bigger brothers. The Omaha natives live with owners Chris and Lacey Kincaid.¬†
Well-identified Kya, a 7-month-old golden doodle in Papillion, enjoys running, having her paws massaged and eating peanut butter by the spoonful.¬†
Iggy, named after his “dad’s” favorite hockey player, Jarome Iginla, loves to watch “cat TV” through this window and bask in the morning sun. He’s owned by Charise, Travis and Maykala in Omaha.
Bruce, seen her being eaten by a shark, will make anyone near him pet him, is training to be an emotional support dog and loves to howl. He’s owned by Emily Suhr in Omaha.
Bruce was named the Week 17 Pet of the Week.
Mittens, who passed away in May 2017, has her name on a brick at the Durham Museum. She’s owned by Cheryl Halda.
Wrigley, owned by Megan and Kevin in Lincoln, loves to cuddle up and snooze, and sometimes chase leaves outside.
Fashion-icon Oliver is owned by Josh Howell in Omaha.
Come on, Millie, learn to recycle. The Bellevue native owned by the Bugay family loves to steal and crunch on plastic bottles.
Rosie, who lives with fellow dog Ryder, is owned by Crystal and Andrea in Bellevue. She loves long walks in the park.
Rosie was named the Week 18 Pet of the Week.
But why don’t you say it to their face, Owen? The Omaha native, owned by Liz Davenport, is obsessed with barking at horses on TV.
Lola, owned by Lula West in Omaha, loves to hang out on her swing and keep an eye out on what’s going on in the kitchen.
Princess Bailee lives in her Omaha castle with two kitten sisters. She has a strong reputation of defending against mailmen, garbage trucks, dogs, squirrels and bunnies. Her owners, David and Ann Nichols, should be very grateful.¬†
The 24-pound Toby was a stray found by Cheryl Halda. He helped his newfound owner through a loss of a loved one.
Maggie, a golden retriever, helped fill the “empty nest” of owners Todd and Mary Johnson of Omaha. She’s pictured cuddling with her best pal, Carl.
Maggie was named the Week 19 Pet of the Week!
Panther, who is only a few hundred awards from catching The World-Herald,¬†has his name on a brick at the Durham Museum.¬†He used to compete in cat shows and did pretty well until deciding he had enough and got fat.
Ryder, who lives with Rosie the dog and owners Crystal and Andrea of Bellevue, loves cuddling on the couch.
Brodie, who is affectionately called “Bear” for his love of cuddling like a teddy bear, just moved to Omaha with owner Christina Powers. He often jumps around his older brother, who is very unimpressed.¬†
Minnie, seen here with Minnie, is owned by Amber Rush in Bellevue. Minnie (the dog) loves to climb on things like a cat.
Boomer, owned by Rosa Vallecillo in Omaha, is an 140-pound Rottweiler looking for a girlfriend. He is very protective of Lulu, a pitbull mix, along with two cats in the house.¬†
Jose Jalapeno, a 9-year-old Chihuahua, loves to burrow in soft blankets, snuggle, chase tennis balls, bathe in the sun and play with his stuffed dinosaur, Fred. He’s owned by Ali Roby in Omaha.
“Do you frolf, bro?”¬† Hallie is a 12-year-old lab who loves to play Frisbee with owner Bobette Lerner in Omaha.
Hallie was named the Week 23 Pet of the Week!
“Hey, this chair doesn’t fit. Please get a new one right now.” Frank, adopted from the Nebraska Humane Society, demands breakfast every day at 6 a.m. from owner Audrey Jensen in Omaha.¬†
Cece is an Australian Cattle Dog owned by Joslynn and Brandon.¬†